Wednesday, February 29, 2012

Leap Year Date Night

My husband's coaches stipend hit the bank today - so we are head out to dinner - just the two of us.  It has been a pretty gloomy day today, and I am feeling pretty cranky, hopefully a nice quiet dinner with a few drinks is just what I need to relax.

Kids homework is done, I have no work to do tonight.  So a little relaxation is in order. Oh and Top Chef finale.

I still haven't regained that sex drive I had last month - still trying to figure out what changed.  I have a general sluggish feeling - actually had to close my eyes for a 40 minute power nap today.  I also notice that we aren't snuggling up at night - so maybe I'm not feeling the intimacy that I felt before.

I will make an extra effort tonight - add some snuggle time during Top Chef to build things up.



  1. Mrs Yes, I'm not sure *where* you are geographically, but I'm Canadian, and I know I always feel sluggish this time of year due to the weather. It's just a fact. Nothing extreme, just an all around lack of motivation for everything, sex included. Cut yourself some slack, it'll return with time. :)

    1. Lannis... I am canadian too. Same here, and good point. Something about sping and summer that bring out the sex vibes.

  2. Just a thought...

    Maybe it's cause your body has gotten used to the change.

    Kind of like when you are working out and you get a lot of changes right off the bat. Then your body compensates and the same exercise routine gets less and less results.

    Not sure what the answer is, just something to consider.

    Sounds like you had a nice night.

    1. This thought has crossed my mind and it both scares me and excites me. I get nervous I won't be able to keep it fresh and the excites me that I get to try to keep it fresh.