One day back and I was up working until midnight. I suck!
So I watched my husband sleep and I fell asleep at my computer, by the time I crawled into bed I was too tired to wake him up. That really stinks - for both of us. Earlier in the day we both happened to be on facebook in different parts of the house and he sent me this message "I'm going to fuck you good tonight" - then I screw it up by working.
In my defense, I had to get something done for a 3rd party vendor and there is really not much I can do about that.
I am definitely going to be ready, willing and able tonight. I am going to close up shop early and have a drink and make my husband live up to the promise he made yesterday.
I hate when circumstances beyond my control start screwing up my sex life. Good on you for planning to make it good. :)
ReplyDeleteSometimes best intentions fall by the wayside. I'm always appreciative when my wife makes it up the next day when something like this happens. I wanted to try last night too, but I fell asleep at 8 pm, hope for a raincheck tonight too.
ReplyDeleteI think it will mean more to him that you recognize that work got in the way and that you are making an effort for another night.
ReplyDeleteI know for me, that would go a long way.
Most people don't prioritize sex enough and just say "well it didn't work out this time" and leave it at that. Good for you for making it a priority.