We don't really celebrate Valentine's Day. Funny that we decorate a little bit - wonder if we will continue to do that when the kids are older? We don't go out or do presents. My husband did pick up some flowers and Hershey Kisses yesterday but that is not out of the norm. Today was a normal Saturday for us, we cleaned and went to watch the little boys play basketball. After the game it was home for dinner and a movie.
So since my last post I have been paying attention to my behaviors and have been emotionally and physically available to my husband. I'm glad that at this point just paying attention and being aware of the barriers I put up is all that I need to do to get back to where I want to be.
One thing I am noticing is that I am quick to communicate when I am not happy about something and not as quick with compliments. So my goal for this month is to complain less and compliment more. I'm afraid this won't be as easy to accomplish - but maybe I will surprise myself.
I'll check back next week to report on my progress!