tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6188485917927777333.post7744475792949288504..comments2020-01-29T19:32:35.098-08:00Comments on I will never say no in 2012: Why...Mrs. Yeshttp://www.blogger.com/profile/03607309394484249435noreply@blogger.comBlogger6125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6188485917927777333.post-55694724578930547672012-12-06T14:52:17.899-08:002012-12-06T14:52:17.899-08:00Stay tuned for 2013. He will know of the now life...Stay tuned for 2013. He will know of the now lifelong resolution to 'Always say Yes!'Mrs. Yeshttps://www.blogger.com/profile/03607309394484249435noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6188485917927777333.post-32505373532916638192012-12-06T13:52:24.253-08:002012-12-06T13:52:24.253-08:00I love this commitment.
Your concern: "If ...I love this commitment. <br />Your concern: "If my husband knew he would be very tempted to dare me to have sex with him in some inappropriate places or situations."<br /><br />Doesn't that sound fun and exciting, though? Surely after 20 years of marriage you know and trust him to not make you do anything illegal or push you to do anything that you would really compromise you.<br /><br />When you say "inappropriate," do you mean new and unusual or possible uncomfortable? Perhaps trying some of those new things would actually result in some really fun times.<br /><br />He's got a very good thing going--wouldn't want to do anything that would truly irritate you.<br /><br />His mind would be spinning with creative things to plan and try. <br /><br />Just a thought. I bet it would totally turn him on and bond him to you forever no matter what.Strong Manhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/03397861817336193206noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6188485917927777333.post-73253443572286809922012-12-05T08:48:24.637-08:002012-12-05T08:48:24.637-08:00What a wonderful entry.What a wonderful entry.Tiffanyhttp://trazuresdarkcove.blogspot.comnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6188485917927777333.post-35369012110384106282012-12-04T12:21:12.894-08:002012-12-04T12:21:12.894-08:00I took a little break from work and found all your...I took a little break from work and found all your comments - I have to get back to work now and might not have a chance to respond until tomorrow - but I'm thrilled that you found me and am looking forward to responding!Mrs. Yeshttps://www.blogger.com/profile/03607309394484249435noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6188485917927777333.post-48115177183022811302012-12-04T09:49:29.251-08:002012-12-04T09:49:29.251-08:00I linked over from New Bea and am wondering how th...I linked over from New Bea and am wondering how the year went. I am not thinking it was all roses or anything like that, but I am interested in how you think a constantly available opportunity for intimacy affected your DH. I know intimacy and sex are not the always hand-in-glove and that is why I did not say sex. I would surmise that after a while there were opportunities for intimacy that did not turn sexual. I am of the opinion that we men sometimes, make that almost always, turn intimate moments into sexual encounters because we are never certain when the next opportunity will present itself. Let me add this feeble, but serious, justification. I am not so sure we only touch you when we want sex as perhaps having touched you, we then want sex, or you, or connection, or whatever sounds least offensive to you ladies. I would and not be surprised if nonsexual touch and intimacy increased once DH felt assured of your constant availability. I know even if my wife refused me now, but said "how about tomorrow afternoon," I would not feel the same disappointment and anxiety had she just refused. I would think after about 6 months, he would not have "opportunity anxiety" and would thus be able to be intimate without escalting to being sexual in every encounter, even to the point of more intimate only encounters. So, how did it go? I know it will take you some time after the end of the year to respond, unless you have been "journaling" and then only have to do a summation. You may have been posting about it. If so, forgive me. This is the first and only post I have read. Now on to the archived posts. Would be interested in whether you have heard from others doing the same. Doing a little research on the topic of married sexuality.<br /><br />Userdand.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6188485917927777333.post-13572602043393167782012-12-01T11:45:02.068-08:002012-12-01T11:45:02.068-08:00I think no matter what your reasons are, were, wil...I think no matter what your reasons are, were, will be...your heart is in the right place and you are doing something awesome for your relationship. I personally am very curious about January 1st:)<br />BeaNew Beahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/16817059318138574794noreply@blogger.com